Until today, I remember these two quotes which made me strong and motivated whenver I face any problem
" If you love somebody, you must set him free...if he comes back to you, he is yours..if not, then he is never meant to be..."
This quote teaches me to let someone loves naturally..without being forced. Let the love grow internally and externally without somebody dictates to him what to do and what not.
At the same time, it teaches you how to have your own dignity..your name..your stance. You are what you are. Though he does not love you, it does not mean you have to ruin your name and dignity just because in the name love. Love is sacred..It is within yourself..
The second quote is " You need to marry the right person who comes at the right time"
Many people think that they are in love but at times, they are wondering whether they should get married or not. They are not very sure. When you are not very sure with what you are doing, stop! Think and ponder..Is she the right person for me? Can she live with me? Though you are madly in love but if both are not ready to give commitment, then you are not ready for the marriage. Love is not the only factor that your should consider prior to the marriage. I believe, love can grow..it can tremendously going strong even after the marriage. Marriage is not only made of romance and affection.. marriage is also made of turbulence and tides. What keep them stronger and together is because of their love and respect to each other.
May we have the power of love to live and to die for the sake of Allah....
p.s. frust nungging...